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ChristineNB

I'm sorry it didn't work out for you two but it's better to find this out now than after the wedding.  Honestly I would be more worried about the fact that my relationship may be falling apart than how to "properly" tell people that there won't be a wedding. 

Jenniker28

Yes it is better now than later to know and I thought about the relationship before i thought about other people
but when your fiance has a relationship on Skype you tend to realize there not quiet worth your big toe so i am more concerned with the people i love than a man i no longer do.

Chels&Jimmy

I'm so sorry to hear about this. ChristineNB is right though - better you found out now that he's not the one for you. Hugs!

JoshLovesJekka

It sucks that your relationship didn't work out, but I hope that you succeed in life with tons and tons of happiness.

LesaAdams

So sorry. That just sucks.

mhogberg

I am so sorry.  Years ago I went through a very ugly break up and was given some advice that I found very helpful.  Breakups are like a death, there is a grieving time that is not only necessary but more than ok , don't let anyone push you to get over this before you are ready.  Also I don't know/want to step on any toes here but put your faith in God and trust that he has something beatuiful in the works for you.  You ahd Him will make someone very happy someday and unfortitly it may not be eachother.  Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Avion22

I've called off a wedding before.  My advice would be to enlist the help of family and friends to spread the word that the wedding is off, and that you would appreciate a little bit of space right now.   Sooner is better than later if STDs have already gone out, since some people may be making travel and lodging arrangements that are non-refundable.   

I'm so sorry that you are going through this.  I know it's hard, but try really hard to forget about what other people might think and just worry about yourself right now.   Hang in there:-)

kmmssg

ditto Avion.  Let family and friends get the word out now.  I'm very sorry you are going through this but, as others have said, it is best to find out now that the marriage wouldn't have worked.  Check out theregoesthebride.com

annie912

As painful as it is, it's is always easier in the long run to call of a wedding than to get a divorce. I wish I would have realized that when I was debating calling off my first wedding. I went ahead, and ten months later we were separated.

That said, this sucks. I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Take care of yourself, take the time you need and then enjoy the rest of your life. At some point, you will look back at this and realize it was a blessing.

I'm also a big fan of voodoo dolls, maybe that works for you.

cwaggoner07

I'm so sorry... hopefully you will look back at this later on as the best thing that could have happened. I wish you all the best.

achiduck

Like Avion I was engaged before and called it off. My Dad called my aunts, uncles and grandmother who then spread the word to my cousins, etc. I told my friends myself. ExFIs family spread the news on their side. 

Best of luck to you.

sonya+adam

I am so so so sorry that you're going through this. It really sucks. Like Avion and achiduck, I was engaged also and called it off. My family was there for me, took care of cancelling everything and letting family members know, so that I didn't have to do it and break down in front of everyone. Most of my family didn't ask me why or anything. Whether my other family members that I did tell what happened told them or not, I don't know. But they all supported me. I'm sure this will be the case for you as well. 

petebergsh

I can't offer any advice on the subject, but I'm so sorry that this happened to you. Big hugs, and like what others have said, let family take care of letting people know, just take it easy for now.

CatherineDee

I'm so sorry and wish you all the best, that things will work out for you.  I know it's a cliche, but time will heal your hurt feelings, and I'm sure that the world will open to you and you will find hapinness and love.