so me and my faince got into a little argument this morning. he is going through a bit of a financial problem right now and he was saying how he doesnt know how he will be able to help with the wedding now. i have a good job and dont mind paying for stuff but he feels bad for not being able to help me out much. which i understand. and the he went on saying how he doesnt get the whole wedding thing and he is basically doing the wedding b/c i want too. and he said what he ment by that is i do want to marry you i just wasnt expecting a wedding like this. we originally were just going to do a very small wedding but my parents wanted us to have a nice wedding so they offered to pay for us to get married a nice place. and when this all started the planing and what not he said go a head hun do whatever you want to do with the wedding. so now i am and i feel bad about doing it. but i stil ask him what he thinks about things and involve him with certain stuff b/c i know he doesnt care about center pieces and flowers i dont know i feel like he is just fusterated about the money issue and the thing is i dont think its an over the top wedding, only about 85 guest at a place called the stroudsmoor county inn. iim keeping it very simple. asked my mom several times if she is ok with everything and she said absolutely! i dont know just needed to vent a bit about it.