confused

alberttrae23

OMG what to do i got overwhelmed and gave up! but i got to get this planed i just had a baby and now it just got a little harder! i don't know where to start and dnt no who can help! dnt  got mommy for a wedding planner what to do where to star! ??

Twowarlocks

Do you have a date, time and place you're getting married? Everything pretty much hinges on that.

DeadUtopia

I'm in SA too and one of the best resources I found for planning my wedding was www.sanantonioweddings.com. When you sign up, just don't give your phone #, but otherwise, I have found 90% of my vendors using that site to do research. Also check out the to do list on this website and it will give you timeframes on when/what needs to be done.

jemmini6

You can start by using better English.  And I'm not trying to be mean, but I honestly have no idea what you are trying to say, I could give much better advice if I understand what you are asking.

redheadfsu

You and your FI are equal partners... so if you need help ask him.

1. Sit down and have a calm adult conversation (not during TV or other distractions).
2. Talk big picture (time of year/what year, ball park guest list numbers (10 vs 100), formality level (black tie vs. backyard BBQ).
3. Budget. Figure one that works for both of you & how you are going to save it.
4. Then start working on an actual guest list & venue options.

Chobot

I'm sorry, I had to read that twice... What's a mommy wedding planner?  Wait, a mommy for a wedding planner? Sigh, I have 4th graders who write better.

RebeccaB88

Elope.

blgrout

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_confused-6?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:fd72750a-3dc9-4186-94db-f715a5bbaaddPost:dc195313-715d-4715-920c-79074c483d18">Re: confused</a>:
[QUOTE]You and your FI are equal partners... so if you need help ask him. 1. Sit down and have a calm adult conversation (not during TV or other distractions). 2. Talk big picture (time of year/what year, ball park guest list numbers (10 vs 100), formality level (black tie vs. backyard BBQ). 3. Budget. Figure one that works for both of you & how you are going to save it. 4. Then start working on an actual guest list & venue options.
Posted by redheadfsu[/QUOTE]

<div>She said everything I was going to say.  He should be helping you. And if you just had a baby, maybe you should wait until you aren't feeling quite so overwhelmed!  That's a lot in of itself.  If the wedding can't wait, follow Redhead's advice.  She's smart.</div>

naomikb

Troll?

Intentionally terrible spelling?  And what newbie knows how to edit their siggy...?

J&K10910

believe it or not, there are actual people that just arent good at or are too lazy to use proper spelling and grammar. just because someone types like that doesnt mean theyre a troll, ffs.

op, redhead, blgrout, and lucy all gave great advice.

Amynutrition

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_confused-6?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:fd72750a-3dc9-4186-94db-f715a5bbaaddPost:22370a05-ccdd-4e25-91de-9841e3ac1b37">Re: confused</a>:
[QUOTE]Elope.
Posted by RebeccaB88[/QUOTE]


this. Spend your $$$ on your kid