I have tried on sooo many dresses and I'm really having a hard time finding what I like. I have found several dresses that have things I do like but I have not found "the dress" that has all or most of what I want. I know you can alterations but I haven't even found anything that is close enough. The dress I have found that most closely matches what I want is Alfred Angelo 1846. I had seen a Demetrios dress back in 2002 and 2005 that I loved but I have been able to figure out the style number even after contacting the local store and corporate. This is what I am looking for:Cathedral train with lace detail so you can see the floor under the dress through the lace.Detailed top with beading, lace and/or sequence. I would like for the detail to be something other than white so it stands out from a white dress (ie: silver, ivory) . But this isn't a must, I just really like it. The skirt to have detail at the bottom that moves up towards the middle of the dress, not a solid white skirt. A waistline that does not have a straight across seem but either makes a "V" (Basque) or an inverted "V". Neckline: ??? this is what I'm not sure about. So far I like some halters, or sweetheart, but I don't like the straight across. I also like another style but I don't really know how to describe it, it kinda crisscrosses across the chest and has a thin string that ties behind the neck. Low back, well at least so my should blades show. I would love lace up but I know this can be added. See I'm picky! Now I just need to find it on one dress. I know some things you can alter. Anyone seen this dress!!! LOLThanks - Aubrey