My fiance doesn't have big opinions on much with the wedding, but the one thing he got really excited about was wanting to have the groomsmen and himself wear breakaway tuxes with Star Trek uniforms underneath (he's a big Trekkie). I'm extremely iffy about the idea because it seems tacky to do it at the end of the ceremony like he said, because that's supposed to be a more serious part of the day. It would also stress me out, because what if the tuxes didn't break away like they're suppose to and we're left standing in front of all our friends and family looking ridiculous? Even if it does work, where are the tuxes going to go once they're taken off? And then all of the photos will have them in their uniforms instead of tuxes, which would clash with the formality of my dress! Not to mention that it would double the cost for men's attire AND they would have all these layers on outside at the end of May! We've gone back and forth with lots of compromises that neither of us is willing to accept, and he suggested having them wear tuxes with just the little Star Trek communicator pin instead of bouttenniers, which is 100% ok with me! Problem is, he's still not really happy with that. I want my wedding to be classy and pretty, but I also want my fiance to have his personal touch and be happy with the final product. I just don't know what to do....