We're getting married in the south of France (where FI lives), in a little village church. FI is 14" taller than me, so I've purchased 4.5" stiletto heels to wear... but now I'm growing concerned about the fact that the surrounding grounds are cobblestone. I love how the heels/height look with the dress, and I love being taller. I can't seem to find any wedges with that height on them. Suggestions???