I have a large vintage style engagement ring desinged by christopher designs. We are looking at wedding bands right now and i really like the idea of having 2 wedding bands so that the ring has an even look to it and I think it would give it a more complete look. I have had alot of somewhat rude responses from women saying that i'm spoiled and that i'm ridiculous for wanting two. Is it that uncommon for women to have 2 or am i truly vein for thinking this? help!