BM dress is David's Bridal F11165 in plum:

I'm having problems deciding what color shoes the girls should wear. I was originally just going to have them wear black shoes, figuring most people have black heels of some sort and then they can just wear what they have. Or, if they need to buy them, they can find a pair easily- there are lots of comfortable black shoes to choose from.
My FMIL thinks silver shoes are the way to go. While I do think they would be really pretty, I think silver shoes are harder to find. Most of the ones I've seen have higher heels, too. None of my girls are really into shoes and I can almost assure you they don't have silver shoes in their closet already. And does anyone really notice the BM shoes, anyway? I'm having a DW and am therefore trying to keep the cost of the extras down to a minimum.
So...