I'm wearing a chapel-length veil, and I want to wear my hair in a bun that is not too high and not too low. According to my mom, the wedding consultant was having trouble getting the veil to stay at such a height when I was trying on wedding dresses. She was putting the veil above the bun, which I'd also like to do on the real day. I won't be able to play around with my hair and veil until I get my veil, but has anyone ever had such trouble? How do you get a veil to stay?