I seem to be leaning toward a Victorian theme, incorporating a blue toile or Delft pattern into the reception decor. I'm torn between lace bridal gowns (which have a very antique quality), or something with a true Victorian style bustle. If I choose lace, what do my bridesmaids wear? Does it have to be lace? I've found a BM dress that I love, but it doesn't seem to fit how I want my wedding to feel. Will a somewhat modern BM dress look terrible with a vintage/antique bridal gown?
http://watters.com/Product/WtooDresses/876/(Off-white top, light blue "Brook" sash, and dark blue "Marine" skirt)