I really think that this is the shoe!
My Fiance is not too much taller than me this has a 1 1/2 in heel and I can change the rhinestone customized for me.
They are from Etsy- here is the link
http://www.etsy.com/listing/67338637/aubergine-purple-25-heel-satin-shoesI am thinking of getting this brooch instead
http://www.etsy.com/listing/62809127/bridal-satin-shoes-embellished-withhas anyone ordered from etsy before??