I just found my dress! I actually only started looking today, and it was the 2nd one I tried on. It's Allue 8825:
http://www.houseofbrides.com/allure-bridals-wedding-dress-style-8825-p-3-112-50912.aspxIt's a lot like the Anne Barge 387, which I saw a year ago and fell in LOVE with but which I can't locate anywhere--and which is about 4 times as expensive! So Allure it is!
Now I have to figure out what my BMs will wear. I'd love them to have a sort of vintage look, too. Think Betty Draper, maybe. Oh, I should mention that I won't be wearing the black flower sash. Instead I'm going to wear a very simple ivory sash that matches the color of the dress.
I'm so excited! I can't believe how easy it was to find this thing!