Definitely go with the silver. My BM's wore purple dresses like that with silver heels. While they didn't wear pashimas bc it was a summer weddding, I would definitely go with a shade of silver.
Thanks everyone for your suggestions...I was thinking silver as well. It's actually not my wedding this time...but I'm in it, so I was put in charge of figuring this part out haha. The bride didn't like the way the black pashmina looked, but she already had us wearing black shoes... I thought silver would have been best, but whatever she wanted was fine with me since it's her wedding...
It's a January wedding so she wants us to wear them so we have a little extra warmth...but we're running out of time...
Re: Suggest a complimentary color for purple dress?