I don't know what colors I want yet:
1. Black bridesmaid dresses with yellow and green accent colors
2. Black bridesmaid dressed with yellow and royal blue accent colors
3. Dark red and black theme
I love darker colors against my white dress, and I know my bridemaids would love to wear black dresses but... red roses/romantic theme is nice too.
A wedding is a party, not a performance. If at the end of the day you are married to the one you love, then everything went perfectly.