July 2012 Weddings

lfjwlkjsldfsfa rant

Okay, I've been pretty calm about shiiit.

FMIL is crazy. I'm sure most of you have read some stuff I've posted about her.

My MOH's dress was MIA until about a week ago. Whatever, if it didn't come in, we'd figure it out. It's just a dress.

People have told me they were coming and then changed their minds. Whatever.

The liquor store chick forgot to order my wine, so I only get what they have in stock which is 17 red and 24 white. It was supposed to be 30 red and 24 white.

Half my decorations that were ordered 3 weeks ago are still somewhere in the province. Will be here the 5th apparently.

Went to go pick up my dress and my bridesmaid's dress today. I called on Saturday and they said "yup! they'll be ready!" So what happens? The woman forgot to do the back of the bridesmaid's dress and asks me to come back in an hour. Fine whatever.

What pushed me over the edge? 4 days, FOUR fuckiiinngg days before the wedding FI's jackass friend who's was supposed to be his second Best Man decides he's not coming because "he can't afford it and his dad won't pay for him". You're 25 fuucckiing yeaars old. You irresponsible SOB. We've been engaged for 2 years. He's known he was in the wedding for TWO years. He doesn't even need to pay for food or a place to stay. Stupid effing welfare case. He wasn't even going to tell FI.
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Re: lfjwlkjsldfsfa rant

  • WOW about your FI's BM....our BM is flakey too...I'm just afraid he won't show up at the rehearsal or more importantly the big day...after FI gave him his free tux so he could be in the wedding...=(
  • If it makes you feel better I'm kinda in the same boat. One of my bridesmaids TEXTED me at 9:15 tonight to tell me she "just couldn't be part of my day. Sorry".
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  • This was by a FB message btw lol. He tried blaming his dad. His dad won't pay for him. Um dude, you're 25 years old.
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  • Wow that's stupid of your FI's second BM. Seriously. Who does things like this, especially at 25 years old? And he just realized this NOW? I'm pissed for you. I know some people who are like that and it's annoying as heck.

    Hopefully it'll be less stressful from now and on! Good luck!
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  • Dang..I'd be totally pissed about the BM as well. Especially because he's known for so long. So sorry you're having to deal with all this BS 4 days before your wedding. :-(
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  • FI made him feel like shiiiit last night. Suddenly he was looking up train tickets and plane tickets. Dude, you're not going to come up with 600 dollars in a day.

    Oh and I was wrong. He's TURNING 25. My freaking 16 year old  bridesmaid is more responsible -_-
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  • I'd be pretty pissed too. There is no reason for that, especially since he has known that long.

    As hard as it is, be pissed for a day and then move on because at the end of the day, it is a minor detail as long as you and your FI are married.
  • That's absolutely ridiculous of your Fi's BM to just tell him now. I can't believe how immature and irresponsible some people are.

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