I am the MOH in my cousins wedding, and the only tricky part of planning everything, is that she is currently fighting the war over in Iraq. She's hardly involved in ANY of the wedding planning, as her mother has taken complete control so not to "bother her" while she's overseas.
I have willingly taken up the task of planning a shower, but have NO idea what the bride wants, simple because I have been ordered "not to distract her" from her duties. I want to plan something that she wants, and that she will LOVE, but am absolutely CLUELESS as to where to go from here...
How will I be able to take creative control if I can't even consult with her, and her mother is constantly stepping on my toes? Help!!