Ok so we have a small reception - only 100 people were invited due to finances. Our date is the 29th and so far we've only received a small portion of the rsvps back. Yesterday I had someone who wasn't invited say to me "can't you just replace on of your no reponses with my name?" and then another person asked "can I give my invitation to so and so since I can't come?"
Seriously! If I wanted them there, I would have sent them an invite in the first place. And how hard is it to send back RSVPs? I know everyone is frustrated with this but since today is the 30 day mark, I think the stress is finally getting to me!