After spending months surfing the web looking for dresses, I finally decided to stick with the same designer as my dress for the bridesmaids dresses. I picked a strapless chiffon empire waist dress that flows away from the body,wanting a simple, casual, springy dress but also keeping in mind that one of my bridesmaids would have just had a baby and one is SERIOUSLY insecure about her body Two of my three BMs said that they were fine with whatever I wanted them to wear, but that they would prefer a floor length dress....The other girl told me that if she didn't like the dress and didn't feel comfortable she just wouldn't walk.....in the middle of Alfred Angelo....oookkkkaayyy!! SOO, I let her try on a few other dresses until she found one that she liked and while its a pretty dress its not at all the feel that I want for the BMs dresses. Ive tried to find another dress that would be closer to what I want but still similar to what she felt comfortable in, but I can't really find anything. I even sent her pictures of a few dresses that I was ok with (including the dress she liked in a tee length) and she told me that she didn't care which one I picked but would prefer the cheapest one since she probably wont look good in them anyway....I don't really know what to do! Several of my friends, incluing both the other BMs, my FI and my mother all told me to tell her that she can either wear the dress i chose and walk or not, but I can't really see me doing that...I don't want to end up getting in an all out fight with her, but at this point we aren't even talking anyway....I quess my question is, Do I keep looking for dresses or pick one and tell her to wear it or not?
PS...my wedding is in April!!