Scott and I were debating today when to ask our wedding party to... well be our wedding party haha! I know for sure I want his sister to be my maid of honor, and I have my two bridesmaids picked out (hopefully they say yes!). He is a bit undecided, but has a handful of choices. I want to ask in the next month or so, he wants to wait a while, like after the venue is reserved. Just wondering what others did, is it a matter of choice, or is there general etiquette? I know we don't have the fear about it being too far in advance, half of our bridal party will be family and the other half it looks like will be our "best" friends who we've had since high school. Any thoughts would be appreciated!