So I'm going dress shopping for the first time this Saturday with the whole crew (moms, sisters, friends) and I busted out my strapless bras to make sure they still fit. It turns out my white strapless corset style bra from VS is a little (aka a lot) small on me now since I have gained some weight in the year since I bought it. I have another strapless bra that fits fine, but it's black. I was planning on bringing the black bra, since it fits, but now I'm worried that it will look funny with the dresses and throw me off. So, should I bring the white one or the black one? I'm afraid that the white one will make me look fat since it does unfourtante things to my arm pudge and muffin top area. I don't really have a lot of money to go buy a new $80 bra before Saturday. Which would be better? black that fits or white that's too tight?