My F and I were talking the other day and he told that me that he hates bouts on guys. They don't make any sense to him at all. So I said ok - he doesn't have to wear something he hates....this is his wedding, too.
Now, I'm wondering what I should do. It may be a pretty common thing for guys not to wear bouts at weddings, but I have never been to one before like that. My mom thinks it will look like we just forgot to buy bouts for the guys. However, I thought it would look nice for them to have nice handkerchiefs in their coat pockets, which I don't think will look likie absentmidedness. What do you guys think?