Hi all,
I'm normally pretty bad at accessorizing (I usually forget to do it!) so I need a little help with shoes and jewelry 
As far as shoes go, I'm thinking I want flats for at least most of the day-- I'm almost 5'7" and my FI is 6'0", and I kind of like the bit of a height discrepancy-- I also don't have a ton of room to hem my dress... without alterations, it's already pretty much where it should be. I'm thinking I want to find a pair of comfy, purple flats (purple just for fun- to go with my wedding colors), but I feel kind of "un-bridal" if I don't get heels! Thoughts on this? I'd definitely need a smaller heel if I get one, but I DON'T want something super expensive (especially if I'm not going to be wearing them much), and nothing super strappy-- my wedding is in January.
Jewelry-- my dress is V-neck lace/beaded, but also kind of simple. Our wedding is going to be formal and pulling in kind of a glimmery/winter feel (think: crystals hanging from birch branches, etc.), so I'm looking at "blingy" jewelry styles like this: http://www.dessy.com/accessories/cz-bridal-set/

My hair will most likely be all the way up in order to show off the low back of my dress, so I definitely want cool earrings to match whatever necklace I find!!
If it helps, here is what the top of my dress looks like:

Thanks for the help... I need it 