So long story short. We are having our wedding at a relatively fancy place (Addison Park in ABerdeen NJ) Now i have always pictured myself getting married in a nice Hugo Boss suit. All black and possibly with a vest. My parents always thought of my father in a Tux. Is their any way to do this and make it look good. If so can we do black tie optional affair? Does the fob need to match my father? If not on all accounts
do people write Formal attire on their invites? if so do we say just formal attire or formal attire required/ requested? Thanks for teh thoughts we have been going back and forth on this and cant make a decision and i want to orde rmy invitations.