I'm trying to buy my undergarments, I def. want a pair of spanx but my dress is strapless and I feel like a corset will give me more of the lift I want as opposed to a regular stapless bra. Any ideas or insight? WIll a corset AND spanx be too much??? Any products you recommend? Has anyone has expereince wearing both at the same time?? Because that's what I'm leaning towards. Or ideas on Spanx with a strapless bra? Please help!