So I am going with the Oasis color for the BMs and FI wants his GM in Cognac color...main reason being we are kind of afraid it will be too much Oasis if guys and girls all match...everybody so far ive talked to when asked about this love the idea...except my grandma..but eh..she firm on tradition of matching everything...anyways..will this look wrong? I was considering having the girls wear a sash in the Cognac color to tie them together..but if they pick a different style that a sash wont look good with..there goes that idea...because Im only being picky on long dresses and the color...strap wise etc its all on them..which they love

I was just curious for opinions in case anyone has done this etc.