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NEED SHOE HELP!

Hi ladies! I need some MAJOR opinions! 

I have 5 bridesmaids who will be walking down the aisle in this order of color of dresses: Purple, Gray, Purple, Gray, Purple.  I was able to find shoes that I liked  and matched the dresses perfectly.  All bridesmaids ordered the shoes in their regular shoe size, but now the shoes have come in and do not fit 2 girls.  The dresses are short and I really wanted everyone to have the same shoes.  I  don't know what to do now!  Luckily, the bridal store took back the shoes for the 2 girls that don't work, they need a wide size and the shoes don't come in wide.  But, the other girls have picked theirs up and paid for them already and they won't take them back.  Will it look weird if 2 girls have totally different shoes?
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Re: NEED SHOE HELP!

  • I dont think it would look weird. Maybe they can find a pair of shoes that they both like and are similar to the ones the other girls are wearing. Just a thought.
  • Nobody else notices or cares about the bridesmaids' shoes. It will be fine. :)
  • Yup, no one cares about their shoes. Let them get shoes they can stand and dance in! (If they have to take off their shoes out of pain, people will notice that.)
  • I don't think it will look weird at all.  I know how you feel about wanting them to match but I think with two different it won't be noticed.  If it was just one person different it would honestly bug me more than two.  My preference would be for the two who returned thier shoes to get the same shoe though.  That shouldn't be a problem since they'll both need wide shoes.
  • are the two girls wearing the grey dresses? if so, that'd be perfect. just have them wear different shoes. or, look for shoes that look very similar.

    even though no one else will be looking at the BM's shoes, YOU will be. if it's gonna drive you crazy, do something about it! Smile
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  • We got it all figured out! The two bm that needed different shoes found shoes very similar to the ones we have and will be wearing the same ones.  They also found them very cheap so I bought a pair for my sister and she is going to wear the same shoes as them so the 2 on the outside will be wearing the original pair of shoes and the 3 in the middle will have the different ones.  Luckily since it was my sister, she didn't care if she wore different shoes and she loves both pairs so rather than return the other pair, she said she wanted to keep them because she liked them so much!

    Thanks for the help!!
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