Are pocket squares for the tuxes really necessary? The guys are all wearing black tuxes. They will have a small lily on their lapel. When we went to the fittings today they sold us on black pocket squares at $4.99 a piece. Is this really necessary? Is it going to look like something is missing if I skip them? I'm just wondering if I can save the $25 on pocket squares.
Also, another shoe question for the ladies in the WP- I only have 2 girls- with matching dresses-- should their shoes and jewelry match or will it look ok if they do different shoes and jewelry?
thanks again!!