I have a pretty large wedding party with the girls ranging in age from 8 to 47. My matron of honor has requested that I not do a strapless dress for them and she would like to be able to wear a normal bra (so no spaghetti straps either). I have found a style of dress that I like but is strapless and I have not been able to find anything that I like that would fit my matron's requests. She is my sister and my mother thinks I need to weight her opinions and requests higher than even my own out of respect. I have thought about just picking the color for them and telling them to pick out something they are comfortable in, but I like the idea of a uniform wedding. How far do I go to please her?