I haven't even been engaged for a month yet and already I'm fed up with planning my wedding. It seems like every one of my family and friends have to put their two cents in about my wedding and it's always something negative.
I have always wanted a December wedding, my fiancee and I have been together since we were 16 and 7 years later we are finally getting married. We first started going out in December so that month has always been special to us. But every chance they get my parents tell me that December is a bad idea because it might snow. My mother called and told me last night that she thought it was poor judgement to have a wedding in December because we might get a blizzard and I have to think about my guests. I live in the Philadelphia/NewJersey area where we usually get snow in late January and February. Do we sometimes get snow in December? Yes but not usually and it's not such a bad storm that the wedding would have to be called off. My mother is also one of those typical Asian "tiger moms" so keep that in mind....
My soon-to-be mother-in-law doesn't seem to like the idea of my bridesmaids wearing different style dresses. But she's not so bad. She didn't out-right say that she hated the idea but she did say "I like it when the bridesmaids all wear the same dress."
My brother was killed last October in a car accident, 3 hours before his 22nd birthday so I've been dealing with that and now I have to deal with the fact that he's not going to be at my wedding. So I wanted to honor him during the ceremony but I didn't want to just have a place for him in the pews because he would have been one of my fiancee's groomsmen so I wanted a place set up on the altar for him and I wanted my fiancee's sister (who would have been walking with him) to walk up holding a picture of Joe and then place it on the area of the altar and then when I walked up to the altar I could place a flower in front of his picture. But when I tell my idea to people they don't seem to like it and give me suggestions.
I don't know I just feel over whelmed. So thanks for letting me rant. I just needed to get this off my chest to people who were not my family and friends.