It's officially official, we have finally nailed down the date and our plans, after changing them about 30 times (or so it seems). We are going to go to the JoP on December 20th in the town where we live, my mother is hosting a reception for us 3 days later 2 hrs away where she lives (and where I'm from), then when we save enough money and get time off (we both work in law enforcement), we will have our honeymoon in Jamaica. It feels good to finally have it all figured out.