I'm an AE, busted

vegasgroom

That is me, I'm a guy, I'm not an AE of anyone, my fiancee is bridejackie on here, she posts in the Vegas locals forum very rarely, she posted in E once and got ripped up and has stayed off all the other forums since then.

Nebb

Oooooooh why did she get ripped apart, did you tell that story yet? Link???

ebonyivory10

Vegas is a cutie.  Never thought you were an AE, even when I saw your posts on the Vegas board.  Maybe I'm not suspicious enough? LOL

ohwhynot

Guess you showed me. 

vegasgroom

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[QUOTE]Oooooooh why did she get ripped apart, did you tell that story yet? Link???
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

Not sure of the thread, cliffnotes are she chose her bridesmaids early, as in about a whole 12 hours after we got engaged, they're all in their first year out of med school so they're on crazy hours just like her with no way of predicting what their rotation, shifts, days off, etc. would be 13 months from that point.   She's the bride so she was able to set up an exception to be able to have all two weeks vacation off consecutively for her wedding at a time when residents taking vacation is normally discouraged since that time of year you switch from 1st year to 2nd year and really get into your specialty.  The other bridesmaids were a little ho hum about whether they'd be able to make it to the rehearsal dinner (we're not actually having a rehearsal), that got her upset that they didn't care aobut our wedding so she posts in E in the same way you see most new people post in E; i.e. my bridesmaids aren't taking my day seriously, they wont go up the ladder and try to make sure they can have off to make it to my rehearsal dinner 13 months from now, they're going to ruin my wedding.  :-)  Knowing E, you can guess what most of the responses were.  She's calmed down since then but hasn't ventured back to E or the other forums since then.

J&K10910

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[QUOTE]Guess you showed me. 
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

This is officially the thing that's made me laugh the hardest and longest today.  Love.

number55

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm an AE, busted : Not sure of the thread, cliffnotes are she chose her bridesmaids early, as in about a whole 12 hours after we got engaged, they're all in their first year out of med school so they're on crazy hours just like her with no way of predicting what their rotation, shifts, days off, etc. would be 13 months from that point.   She's the bride so she was able to set up an exception to be able to have all two weeks vacation off consecutively for her wedding at a time when residents taking vacation is normally discouraged since that time of year you switch from 1st year to 2nd year and really get into your specialty.  The other bridesmaids were a little ho hum about whether they'd be able to make it to the rehearsal dinner (we're not actually having a rehearsal), that got her upset that they didn't care aobut our wedding so she posts in E in the same way you see most new people post in E; i.e. my bridesmaids aren't taking my day seriously, they wont go up the ladder and try to make sure they can have off to make it to my rehearsal dinner 13 months from now, they're going to ruin my wedding.  :-)  Knowing E, you can guess what most of the responses were.  She's calmed down since then but hasn't ventured back to E or the other forums since then.
Posted by vegasgroom[/QUOTE]

<div>Sigh...I can imagine the response she got...and yet, she is probably a very nice, reasonable woman...I think wedding planning gets the best of many rational people. (ETA: who should be careful not to post certain things on certain boards...)</div><div>
</div><div>It is nice to put a face to the name Vegas. I don't see how being a guy means you can't post here. Are you in the minority, absolutely, but who cares. My DH doesn't love that I post here and now some of my friends/family know about it and it is a big joke...they keep asking me when I am going to delete my account since I am married. I just think that people who have never been part of a 'forum community' don't get it. </div>

ohwhynot

I honestly think that if she had posted the same story here, she would have gotten the same reaction. 

number55

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[QUOTE]I honestly think that if she had posted the same story here, she would have gotten the same reaction. 
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

<div>Yep!</div>

DodgersBride

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[QUOTE]I honestly think that if she had posted the same story here, she would have gotten the same reaction. 
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

Ditto

vegasgroom

Pretty much.  I stayed out of it, it was a no win situation for me lol:

Option 1) Don't worry babe, they'll make it to the rehearsal dinner if they can and if they dont they're going to be there for wedding day either way.  What, you're taking their side?

Option 2) I can't believe those b*tches, they aren't taking our day seriously!  But that could have encouraged her to do something she'd regret.

I gave her some wine and said lets worry about it next week.  Problem solved.

Celles

Wise man.

number55

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[QUOTE]I gave her some wine and said lets worry about it next week.  Problem solved.
Posted by vegasgroom[/QUOTE]

<div>Correct response. DH did this a few times for me. Sigh, that's why he is DH, he understands the role wine and whine play...</div>

leayn

I don't care if he's fake...that dude us HOT.

crfische

Yup. Put me on the Vegas Groom is hot train. I'll take the caboose.

Steph0871

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[QUOTE]Yup. Put me on the Vegas Groom is hot train. I'll take the caboose.
Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]

<div>I'm glad someone(s) else said it first!</div>

maratea

He has pretty teeth.

[Deleted User]

I haven't read this thread, but that picture reminds me of the time that Matt made this scammer hold up a sign that said "Dirty Sanchez" and take a picture.

vegasgroom

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[QUOTE]I haven't read this thread, but that picture reminds me of the time that Matt made this scammer hold up a sign that said "Dirty Sanchez" and take a picture.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

I'm going to say no on the dirty sanchez. lol

akhensley81

Are there any tickets left for that train?

NuggetBrain

Fischy, bring him for all the blackup to enjoy.  SHARING IS CARING.

Noodle doesn't understand the Knot.  But he understands that he doesn't understand the Knot, so he doesn't give me too much sh*t about it. 

marriedfilingjointly

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[QUOTE]I haven't read this thread, but that picture reminds me of the time that Matt made this scammer hold up a sign that said "Dirty Sanchez" and take a picture.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]


Yes, that was awesome.

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]I haven't read this thread, but that picture reminds me of the time that Matt made this scammer hold up a sign that said "Dirty Sanchez" and take a picture.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

I definitely remember, it was our first conversation on TK and I was laughing my ass off, and it made me think our H's would get along great. Still makes me think of "I heart bukkake." Ah, precious memories.