Tell me i'M being ridiculous kui

overcomefame

I'm sitting at the sugarland concert waiting for my best friend to get back with our other friend from going for a refill of beer and food. I'm feeling like they're talking about me, they've been gone 20 minutes. Backstory: my best friend is my former coworker, I've since moved to a different branch. She's pretty much my only friend and I've really depended on her to help me get through things, my h's bipolar, my anxiety and depression. She's recently moved in as roommates with another coworker, the other friend we're at this concert with. I feel like I'm losing her as a friend. I can no longer talk to her everyday about the shiiit that's bothering me and I now feel like she's moving on with this new friend. Hence, me thinking they're talking about me right now. Please tell me I'm being stupid. I need to get sense slapped back into me. Also, I've had a few, and if this shows up with no paragraphs, I'm on mobile, which sucks ballz. Thanks.

jmp2004

If you're at a concert, it probably takes that long to get a beer and food.  

You're being silly.  If you feel like you can't talk to your friend anymore, that's on you, unless she has actually told you stop talking to her about this stuff.  But next time you chat, make sure to ask about her and how things are going.  Make sure she understands it's not a one way friendship. 

bonge

i agree with the being silly it takes a while part & i dont mean that in a bad way. i went to an eagles concert with my mom  & our partners a couple years ago & it took long to get anything. 

Enjoy the concert Jennifer is amazing & they put on a great show. 

Starqueg

I'm just jealous that you're at a Sugarland concert.  I saw them when I was in undergrad when they toured with Little Big Town and Jake Owen and it was a great show.  Now that I'm back in NYC, there is no country radio station and most country bands don't play anywhere nearby.  

Lines are long, as I'm sure you know.  Talk to your friend.  If you pull away because you think she's pulling away, it could lead to her pulling away because you're pulling away.  And then you might be out a good friend.

overcomefame

I'm home now, thank you guys. The show was good, my friend came back about 10 minutes later. The lines were long. I really don't know why my head goes these places. I just want to feel normal again and not feel like the world is against me. Thanks for giving me the common sense I needed.