Robey,

KristenBtobe

Why the DD?

wingedbride

one two three.....

kaybeeknits

I may or may not have youtubed Three Marlenas

Mrs.Expchic

VENDOR ALERT!  VENDOR ALERT!

FallinAgain

So, soccer mom is encrouching on your FB friends as well as Eddie?  Have you seen Single White Female?

mrs.R.tobe

I dd because some of you think it's a joke and like to poke fun. I just wanted to see what others thought. Am I over thinking her latest move??

Mrs.Expchic

I hope you don't have a pet bunny.

mrs.R.tobe

I have not seen that movie....

wingedbride

I think you need to ignore her or else you are going to drive yourself insane. Your H is leaving her alone, you believe her, problem solved. stop worrying about her.

mrs.R.tobe

Fallin, it's not that she FB friended her so much. It was the whole story explaining why she didn't give her the time of day before....

mashedpotato

winged, SHE WON'T BE IGNORED!

mrs.R.tobe

I know winged. I am trying. I just can't get away. Like yesterday, she came up in conversation with this other lady......

BobLoblaw

I'd like to help but you DDed before I got to read your post. Sorry.

wingedbride

well, if you cannot leave this alone, i assume it is because deep down this bothers you and you still have unresolved feelings. so i suggest you get some counseling, if you aren't already.

aligrrl80

so what? what are you, the facebook friend police? if she's not actually bothering you in any way, let her facebook friend whoever the hell she wants and tell them whatever stories she wants. it's no skin off your back.

aligrrl80

Like yesterday, she came up in conversation with this other lady...... so change the subject. it isn't that hard.

mrs.R.tobe

okay, there is another lady at soccer that had a baby a month before me. We decided to join a mom and tot group together. She added me to her facebook so we can discuss times to get together and whatever. Like two days later SM added this lady to her FB. I was out with this lady and she told me that SM told her she never talked to her before or got to know her, because the club moves so much, which is not even true. But, SM got to know all the guys at the club, including this ladies husband. They even went out for coffee during a game. I think she is crazy.

mrs.R.tobe

Your right, I will give that a try. Thanks.

Mrs.Expchic

Sounds like you are all up in SM's business.  maybe its your own insecurities? 

wingedbride

maybe its your own insecurities? :;touches nose::

FallinAgain

I can't remember what she said to the other lady.  That she hadn't talked to her before b/c the team moved around a lot?I think it's appropriate that you and, certainly Eddie, have no contact with SM, but Ali's right, you can't police her friendships with others.  Overreacting (and really, what could you do about it anyway?  Call her a liar to this FB lady?) makes you look threatened by her and gives her more importance than she should have.

mrs.R.tobe

How exp? I didn't bring her up? She is the one out talking about the club, which my husband runs.

mrs.R.tobe

I didn't say anything bad to this lady about her. I just changed the topic. I just posted it on here to vent.

Mrs.Expchic

How did you know she left for coffee with another coach from the club, which your husband runs, then?

wingedbride

it doesn't matter what you said to the other lady. it is obvious you are obsessed with this. it is all you talk about. whether you talk to other people about it or not does not deny that this is consuming you and you need help.

AngieP900

Clearly the only way this will be solved is with a dance off.

KristenBtobe

Robezilla, want me to delete this? Sorry to bring up such a sore subject.

FallinAgain

But, SM got to know all the guys at the club, including this ladies husband. They even went out for coffee during a game.Dude.  This is good.  She's focusing on other people's Hs.

mrs.R.tobe

I think I am going to confront her. It's the only way to say what I have to say and get over it. I am not going to flip out or anything. I will be very calm and tactful. I will just say I think what she did was horrible, that I know it's not just her fault, but she is owed some blame. That I am the one who should be mad, so why is she giving me the dirty looks. I have been more than understanding. I could of told her husband and had her kid kicked off the team. I am trying so get rid of the attitude. She could of said sorry.

CaliopeSpidrman

Robe, I have no idea what your original post said so I'm operating with what little background info I already have, but I don't think you should confront her.  About what?  I'm sure as far as she's concerned, she hasn't done anything.  And technically she hasn't.  You're just going to look crazy.  It'll give her something to talk about to other people.  "Can you believe that lady?  She thought I was trying to steal her husband!  What a jealous freak!"  But it does sound like this is a big problem for you.  You need some couch time because you're not getting over it.

mrs.R.tobe

Yes, there are underlying issues, one with my husband and I am dealing with it, and the other is being disrespected by this person and never standing up for my self.