April 2012 Weddings

Sister bachelorette party drama LOOONG

Okay ladies heres my drama that you asked about LOL. Sooooo my best friend/MOH is the one putting together my bachelorette party. Well originally my sister wanted to put it together so I said yes and asked if she would include my MOH/bestie because she really wanted to put it together. Well the party was supposed to happen on March10th. Well 3 weeks ago my sister who made a fuss about throwing the party for me decided she didnt want to do it any more and told my MOH that is was all on her from here on out. Soooo my MOH put it all together and sent out the invites and all was well. Then my MOH got sick and had to go to the hospital on the 5th. So I call her and check on her and ask if we need to reschedule due to her health as its very important to me that she be there and be able to enjoy it without being sick. She says she should be fine and that no matter what we are having the party so YAY right ummmmmm NOOOOOOO! I get a phone call from my sister on Thursday night 48 hours before the party and the first words out of her mouth arent hey, hello, or hi she says The party is canceled. So I ask her whats going on and she proceeds to blame it on my MOH saying she is sick and that this weekend just isnt going to work because of how sick she is. So im now worried and get off the phone to call MOH and check on her as we have been best friends since 3rd grade. My MOH then tells me that she never said anything like that to my sister and that my sister called her telling her that it just wasnt a good weekend for her to be going to my party so we needed to cancel. My sister even went as far as to email everyone invited before talking to me or MOH to tell them the party was going to be canceled. So if thats not bad enough I then call my sister out and she says she went shopping last weekend spent to much money and just didnt have the funds to come to the party so it would need to be rescheduled. Ummmmm call me crazy but you didnt want to plan it and its not your party but then you can cancel it simply because you spent to much money buying a new purse and shoes??? WTF! Well she then proceeds to tell me that I have 3 choices have it on the 31st which is 6 days before my wedding which I didnt want to do and why I planned it to be a bit earlier, have it after the wedding which call me crazy totally negates it being a bachelorette party, or dont have one at all. Well I tell her that I dont want to have it after the wedding as it would no longer feel like a bachelorette party at that point and that 6 days before the wedding scares me as someone could get drunk fall and get hurt, and I know im going to be soooo crazy in the head the week of the wedding I worry I wont be able to relax and enjoy it. Well she then calls my MOH and all other BMs telling them im just being a diva about it and being complicated. Soooo thats my crazy before wedding drama. Oh I have since talked to MOH who is bummed and wants to throw this party for me and have agreed to do it the 31st and if everyone can come and act right fine and if not then at this point i really dont care as the ony thing that matters to me at this point is marrying my honey! So for the ladies that wanted to know heres the drama that unfolded the last few days for me. Am I wrong for being sooooo pissed? I havent made a huge deal with my sister yet as im really trying to avoid drama before the wedding but I plan to have it out with her after the wedding.
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Re: Sister bachelorette party drama LOOONG

  • Sorry that you had to deal w/ that! I don't blame you at all for being upset...I would have been too.
  • That is so annoying.  I am sorry you had to deal with that.  I agree with PP, is your sister usually like this?  Did your MOH actually cancel the party or your sister just made the decision by herself?

    I agree that having the bachelorette the weekend before your wedding could be a bit much, I would worry about a huge hang over and not being able to get done last minute things. 

    Are you speaking to your sister now?
  • I'd be pissed too. That's just ridiculous.
  • I'm so sorry...I would continue with the party as planned and leave it to your MOH. Your sister is being totally unreasonable. This is unnecessary drama and a way to take attention off of you. She does not get to decide when your bachelorette party is. That's just nuts
  • I would be pissed too.  Your sister totally made the whole thing about her and then tried to blame the MOH?  Not cool.  If you still want the party, you should have it.  Weddings bring out the crazy in people, as my FI keeps telling me.

    I'm having my b-party the weekend before the wedding, but I figure I have everything under control *enough* that I can deal with being massively hung over the Sunday before the wedding, and I have the whole week off to finish wedding stuff.  Hopefully my plan works!
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  • I would be fuming mad. Your sister stepped in and did things that she had no right to do. If it were me, i would have said, that`s too bad for her and the party is going on regardless. I would have called or emailed the guests myself to tell them that the party was still on, and your sister didn`t know what she was talking about.

    Is she normally this crazy?
  • Wow! I would be mad too!.
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    [QUOTE]I would be fuming mad. Your sister stepped in and did things that she had no right to do. If it were me, i would have said, that`s too bad for her and the party is going on regardless. I would have called or emailed the guests myself to tell them that the party was still on, and your sister didn`t know what she was talking about. Is she normally this crazy?
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