Pregnant chlamydia girl posted again: [url]
http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/1/23432756/ShowThread.aspx[/url]I'll save you the trouble of sifting through 3 pages of "you're so strong" and "drain the bank accounts/don't drain the bank accounts" comments and deliver you this awesome nugget from a 23 year old:Men are selfish and possession oriented. They care more about what they are getting out of a divorce, break-up, or separation once they know there is no salvaging the relationship itself. Both of my past engagements ended with "give me my ring back" on his part. Anything they are taking a financial loss on (gifts, joint accounts, etc) they want back. A lot of men view relationships as investments, money wise. Which is why so many of them want prenupts (sp?). He WILL drain the bank account or try to take your name off of it. You gotta stay one step ahead of him, or else you will end up with nothing. My own DH tried to get me to sign a prenupt, which I threw in his face in disgust. That's just how (most) men's brains work.
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