I love my mom, but she is the most selfish, insensitive, rude, and impolite person I know. She keeps on saying, "well, this is what I did at MY wedding...why don't you do that?" "are you really going to choose THAT place/dress/color/food, etc.?" The eye rolling, constant bitching about stupid stuff (I thought I was supposed to be the one to get pissy about stuff). My favorite: "you CANNOT invite this person, that person, him, her or anyone I don't know!" I keep calling my future MIL for advice/venting, but she lives in GA and we are in IN and it just sucks. She is spring for 1/3 of the budget, my finace's folks or 1/3, and us for 1/3. Just a little vent, but after 25 years I think an outward explosion is iminant.