My best friend of 3 years has been acting super werid since we announced our engagement last Sunday. She canceled on girl time 3 times last week for her boyfriend and wasn't too sincere in her congrats. I don't even remember if she did or not to be honest. I'm about 90% sure it's a jealously thing, cause she ranted the same to me last year when both her sisters got married. She's 22 and I'm 19 so it's probably an age thing but I've been dating my BF longer than she has dated hers. I don't want to approach her on this and make things worse but it hurts because I had always saw her as my MOH and after the immature was she's acted I'm not so sure. The people I work with and just met 3 months ago were happier and more excited for me than she was and I've known her for 3 years. I'm just hurt. I don't even know why I am upset about it. My 'best friend' gave up on school cause she was tired of it and has no goals, her boyfriend who she turns me down for has failed out of 3 schools already and can't seem to handle stress or get a job. So I don't know why I'm upset. It's probably just all jealousy on her part.
My parents too got mad at me when I said I wanted to get married next year. Even though they got engaged at my age. My BF's parents got mad too when we talked about next year. I don't know what's with people but we are happy and it just hurts not many other people are. I know it's that they think we are too young or that they want us to be taken care of but after 4 years of dating and being abstinate it's pretty darn hard to be patient much longer. I'm graduating next semester and he still has two years left but we are going to make it work. Divorce is not in our vocabulary.
What kind of other unsupport have others recieved?