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Stick up for myself or don't rock the boat?

I'm a buyer for an internet company with a very demanding boss, so my work life is pretty hectic. I put in a lot of extra hours, including nights and weekends without very good pay. We only have two allowed sick days every year. Today, I used one of those sick days to go to the doctor's to get an ear infection treated. My boss is irate with me, even though I had no meetings scheduled, continue to answer my emails from home, and let him know I am available by phone if he needs me.  I feel like I shouldn't even have to be working from home all day and he should at least not be angry with me if not grateful for the fact that I am working on what is technically my time. Do you think I should stick up for myself and say something to him or just not rock the boat? I don't want to make him mad since I am depending on this job to pay for the wedding, but I am tired of getting a guilt trip for being sick.

Sorry if this isn't the right place to post this, I'm kind of a newbie.

Re: Stick up for myself or don't rock the boat?

  • Comprimise???
  • Thanks for the advice everyone! To answer the questions, I am salary so I do get paid for the two days off I get. I also have five paid vacation days which you need to schedule at least a month in advance, so they can't be used as sick days. I am going into the office shortly...I think I am going to hold off on a major discussion for now, but if he makes some comments to me I will  mention that I can't help being sick and did my best to be helpful from home. I am also looking very hard for a new job. It's difficult because there are no education jobs as many schools in my area are closing (I have a Master's in education) and I am  having a very difficult time finding a job in any other fields. But wish me luck!
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_stick-up-myself-dont-rock-boat?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:3dda9470-a145-4076-9b6d-dfd6b454a128Post:3dff6383-7290-464d-b74c-d699b14c8f64">Re: Stick up for myself or don't rock the boat?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Comprimise???
    Posted by riverjib[/QUOTE]


    Haha apparently the fever affects my spelling...oops.
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