I'm watching RHODC and one of the main ladies is contacting her bio mom's son to try to get more information about her adoption. I didn't catch the age of the son but she is sending him a FB message saying "You would never believe what we have in common, please contact me!" (or something like that, exact wording not there).
From what I've caught of the backstory her mom is white, had an affair with a Nigerian man and gave up the baby. Current husband of white lady has no clue that she ever had a baby, Nigerian man has no clue, and the "kid" now looks to be in her late 30's/early 40's.
She contact bio mom and I guess she wants nothing to do with her and told her to leave her family alone.
What do you think? Is it an adopted childs right to be able to contact her bio family even if it is against the families wishes or is she being incredibly selfish by risking this woman's life (as far as current husband/kids) with this news.