I cannot stand it....

MISSCOURTNEY20

when my FH walks around here, when there is clearly something wrong with him, and when I ask him what his problem is, he says "Nothing". Uhhgg! I am ready to throw this cup of water all over him.

Anyone else have a FI/H vent this wonderful Sunday evening?

AllAboutTheBenjamin

I love him but he can be such a girl about our wedding plans (and lots of times, I'm the guy).  Yay role reversals.

Like for example, I just want decisions to get made.  Pick something and move onto the next thing.  We had a song picked out to dance to for our first dance at the reception... YAY!  One less thing to worry about.  Then a day or two later he says "Well I was listening to my iPod and this song came on and I think its better..."

I know he just wants everything to be perfect so I can't really fault him, but still.  Pick it!  And let it stay picked!

nda_roxybabe

Yes! He wont leave me alone. "Help me make my chicken help me make my chicken help me make my chicken" "im making a messsss"
GAH!

MISSCOURTNEY20

He has an attitude tonite as big as my head and won't say anything. We talked about this for a looong time during our marriage counseling, which was only 3 weeks ago. I think it has something to do with the fact that he used some wedding money to pay some of his bills and I called him out on it. Tonight he came in after taking pic at a vow renewal, and put it back. He shouldn't have taken it in the first place! DAYUM!!!

loop0406

I can't stand when FI wakes up early in the mornings on wknds, like at 6am and sings and makes noise !!!!!
I love sleeping in

JennaV26

This isn't DH's fault (other than his choice to become a doctor) so I hate complaining about it but he has a test on Friday which means I'm not going to see him much this week. Even now he's at the library. I hope it's all worth it in the end!

MISSCOURTNEY20

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_cannot-stand?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:4b698eca-3aaf-4af1-b002-37acfc5ef4aaPost:4c57a46d-0cbd-4163-9dcb-2a99cbe1bd8e">Re: I cannot stand it....</a>:
[QUOTE]This isn't DH's fault (other than his choice to become a doctor) so I hate complaining about it but he has a test on Friday which means I'm not going to see him much this week. Even now he's at the library.<strong> I hope it's all worth it in the end!</strong>
Posted by JennaV26[/QUOTE]

I am very sure it will be.

JennaV26

{{fingers crossed}} Until then I need to find myself a job! I hate job hunting!

MISSCOURTNEY20

I can imagine. I have been very fortunate that I didn't have to look for another teaching job this year. Especially because in this business, it is all about who you know.

JennaV26

Yes agreed and I know no one here! Oh well. Wish me luck!

ETA: I think you meant it's all about who you know in the teaching business which I'm not in but same with trying to get a marketing job.

Jessica2ny

Love him to death... but I will say I am pretty tired of Madden 2011... lol

katiewhompus

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_cannot-stand?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:4b698eca-3aaf-4af1-b002-37acfc5ef4aaPost:20c6f919-b1e6-4cb7-bf69-8e29b6b246ed">Re: I cannot stand it....</a>:
[QUOTE]Love him to death... but I will say I am pretty tired of Madden 2011... lol
Posted by Jessica2ny[/QUOTE]

Make it go away...It wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't the same songs over and over and over and over and over again while he does the whole player stats crap.

JennaV26

Thankfully DH doesn't play video games but he has TWO different fantasy football teams and at least one fantasy baseball team so it's really fun sitting with him while he looks up stats and participates in online sporting debates.

I type that and it occurs to me that he might feel that way about me being on TK, but it's absolutely not the same so I digress!

vegasgroom

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_cannot-stand?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:4b698eca-3aaf-4af1-b002-37acfc5ef4aaPost:4c57a46d-0cbd-4163-9dcb-2a99cbe1bd8e">Re: I cannot stand it....</a>:
[QUOTE]This isn't DH's fault (other than his choice to become a doctor) so I hate complaining about it but he has a test on Friday which means I'm not going to see him much this week. Even now he's at the library. I hope it's all worth it in the end!
Posted by JennaV26[/QUOTE]

Residency is fun too; my FI got her MD this year and is now in 1st year of residency and she's on call every fourth day which means go in at 7 AM and get off the next day at noon, then try to catch up on sleep to start the cycle again lol. 

lu27

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_cannot-stand?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:4b698eca-3aaf-4af1-b002-37acfc5ef4aaPost:64d4bc46-87da-4a7e-8474-8fa3d0032e56">Re: I cannot stand it....</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I cannot stand it.... : Residency is fun too; my FI got her MD this year and is now in 1st year of residency and she's on call every fourth day which means <strong>go in at 7 AM and get off the next day at noon, then try to catch up on sleep to start the cycle again</strong> lol. 
Posted by vegasgroom[/QUOTE]

Ugh.... I won't start my residency for a few years... not looking forward to this.

As the person in our relationship that is on the "other side"; let me say (as you probably know) that your FI/H REALLY appreciates your patience while their QT with you is limited... family support is HUGE!

:)
 

Mioh1

It annoys me a little when FI is always in a hurry and all I want to do is start off my day relaxing.