Big fight with FH. Am i over-reacting?

splint00

wow, there are red flags all over the place. And how old is he anyway-he sounds like he's 21 years old. Are you sure he really has a job? I mean, how could he if he's paying video games for hours on end. I can't imagine putting up with that. And for you to threaten him with ultimatums is not very mature either. Maybe put the wedding on hold indefinitely until you guys resolve your issues. Seek professional help. If you guys don't resolve all this stuff before you are married, it will never go away and then it won't be calling off a wedding, it will be ending a marriage.