I found out a week ago that my dad has cancer and I just got a call from my mom with an update. It has not spread to his lymph nodes or bones. They are putting him on hormone therapy until they can get him in to remove the prostate (he's complaining that he'll end up with man boobs! lol). They're going to check the bladder lining while they're there and make sure it's hunky dory but they have a plan in place if that biopsy comes back positive. So, barring complications, things are going okay.
I just wanted to say thanks again for everyone's support on my previous thread. It really helped and I hope others can benefit from all the positive stories you shared.