So my out of town cousin and her daughter are one of my bridesmaids and my flower girl. Or so I thought. Apparently she told my grandma ( who lives in the same state) that she can't afford to come. Which makes me sad/ mad because she said she would, but things change, I get that.... But why hasn't she fucking told me? Be an adult, she's like ten years older than me, not a stupid kid... And I know she has money... But ya know.... It's not my money, I can't say how she should spend it. My father called her