I am getting married on May 1, 2011. We booked the venue on May 1 of this year. It was decided then that we would not have kids other than the 2 in the bridal party (my DD and my nephew) because of the the amount of kids ages 2-8 that my family/friends have (20 kids). Yesterday my mom tells me that she is inviting my cousins' kids. (4 in total ages 2-9 by the time the wedding comes). I told her no because we already discussed this and I am not inviting those kids and not inviting the kids of my wedding party because I think that's rude.
She said she is paying so she decides. I know she is right about the paying thing so FI and I have to make a decision. (I do not want to make this thread a debate about kids or no kids because I'm sure we can find 6 other threads on that subject).
I want to know if we should let my mom have her way and invite these four kids or stand our ground and postpone the wedding?