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Bachelor Party....Rules?
I got into a discussion with a friend over the weekend and I was wondering what the general concensus was...
For the record, the night of our parties, we're going to be checking in with each other, but that's just what we do when we got out separately, it's not a rule or anything
For the record, the night of our parties, we're going to be checking in with each other, but that's just what we do when we got out separately, it's not a rule or anything
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Re: Bachelor Party....Rules?
Just call me "Brothel"
And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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Whatever you hatters be hattin. -Tay Prince
We just check in with each other when we're not together, it's not an insecurity thing, it's a "miss you and I hope you're having fun" thing
[QUOTE]If you don't trust your fiance enough to go out without you for one night and maybe he might even see (not touch, see) some nekkid chicks that aren't you, you don't need to be getting married. Really, it's just not that big a deal. I don't know if any of FI's GMs will throw him a bach party, but if they do, I trust FI completely. Period.
Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]
You must be in my head LC. My FI was actually in another state camping at Talladaga with his buddies who drove him to a strip club. We joked later that he would come home with glitter on him. I have no problems with it. I trust him.
[QUOTE]I can see your point Salt, but it's just a habit at this point
Posted by 526SadieSadie[/QUOTE]
<div>Fair enough. A lot of times it's that way for DH and I too, but we decided we weren't going to call during our b-parties. </div><div>
</div><div>As it turned out, I couldn't have called him if I wanted to because his friends took away his wallet and phone. hahah</div>
[QUOTE]I feel like checking in to be all "I miss you" kind of defeats the purpose of the bachelor party.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]
Agreed. Besides, my H would have been ragged on so hard by his friends if I had nagged him during his B-party.
Just call me "Brothel"
And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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Ditto the other ladies. I want my FI to have the time of his life, go crazy, check out nekkid chicks and drink his face off. Well not really but you know what I mean. It's his bachelor party - I don't want him texting me or calling me throughout the night, I want him to go out and have one hell of a good time.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Bachelor Party....Rules? : You must be in my head LC. My FI was actually in another state camping at Talladaga with his buddies who drove him to a strip club. We joked later that he would come home with glitter on him. I have no problems with it. I trust him.
Posted by kd.joseph[/QUOTE]
This is probably going to be my FI's bach party too! Him and BM love to fish and camp! I wouldnt be suprised if they went to a strip club, i trust that he would never hurt me or cheat onme. He feels the same about me. haha, Actually whenever i go out with my friends i usually flirt with the men at the bar so i get a free drink. FI knows and thinks its funny! I rarely spend my own money on drinks!! I hardly ever go out though.
I heard his best friend in the backround talking to his wife too. I was amused.
Whatever you hatters be hattin. -Tay Prince
Just an FYI, this is my third marriage. Both my first and second husbands screwed around on me. But, I dont take it out on the man who didn't. I fixed myself, and I fixed my picker.
Your girlfriend needs a reality check, or she'll be alone again.
She sounds like she's already trying to start crap.
But to make him check in every 15 minutes? Christ, what's the point of even having a bachelor party?
[QUOTE]Not because I don't trust him, but because strippers disgust me and the thought of him looking at one and getting excited in the least grosses me out.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]
<div>You don't "let" him have porn in the house either, do you?</div>
If I had any doubts about him acting appropriately, I wouldn't be marrying him. He's an adult and I trust him to act accordingly. If he wants to go look at naked girls, I don't care. that's what guys like to do.
[QUOTE]The only 'rule' I made for DH's party was no strippers. Not because I don't trust him, but because strippers disgust me and the thought of him looking at one and getting excited in the least grosses me out. Yes, I am a prude and can admit it. But I certainly didn't make him check in. He told me where he was going and called on his own to say they were going out to a bar down the street, which I appreciated because I do worry about his safety (something my mom ingrained in my head, always worrying about people when they are out late at night). But to make him check in every 15 minutes? Christ, what's the point of even having a bachelor party?
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]
You make rules or a child, not your FI/H.
Just call me "Brothel"
And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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