Hello Ladies!
My wedding is exacly 80 days from today... I think I've got the majority of everything either taken care of or under control and I'm feeling very good about that.
Here's my vent... I'm 33 - I've had most of the same friends since I was 19 or 20. In that time we've all grown and changed - i know this is normal and to be expected - but what are you supposed to do if as you're growing you possibly grow away from someone that you've been close with for over a decade? Is this something you just have to roll with? I'm pretty sure that it can't be stopped or anything like that... but I'm not really sure how to deal with this. I'm one of the last of my friends to get married - most of them are already working on kid #2, so I'm a little behind the curve. I'm sure that the things I'm thinking about are all things that they have thought about too - I've actually had conversations about this with some of them - one in particular who would sit there and tell me that I couldn't do anything about it - I just had to accept things as they are.
I know i can't be the first person to have these observations... but how am i supposed to handle all of it? I mean... all my friends are growing apart but my FI's friends are as close as ever. Is this a girl thing? I'm making new friends - mostly the wives of my FI's friends - but they are all great people.
I just don't know if there's something that I can do to at least make myself feel better if not try to keep my group of friends close.
Thoughts???