This could be awkward.

LedZeppelin

I just got an invite to a friend's house warming party. I really want to go, but there's just one draw back. He is also friends with FI's ex. This girl HATED me because FI and I were really good friends and because FI only went out with her after I turned him down because I was scared of dating a good friend. She would even send me emails and IMs calling me a c*nt and other choice words.

She's married now and hasn't seemed to have much of a problem with me anymore. She's even emailed FI a few times telling him she's happy for him and what not. It's just - weird.

I'm planning on going anyway, but it could be interesting.

NatesGirl16

Led-these are excellent suggestions.  Be your hot self and kick that bitch in the babymaker.

M&M--I hate situations where I'm in the middle and ppl get mad at my for knowing something they didn't know.  Clearly, there's a reason no one told them yet and they need to get over it.  But it sucks for you, since they'll be angry/upset at you, too. 

LedZeppelin

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-could-awkward?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:7ead2e53-a64d-4d9e-a066-dd5e5fa3b862Post:1e8d65e9-f7ad-4426-a025-bfe9d7f3b996">Re: This could be awkward.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: This could be awkward. : I've had this happen a couple of times, and if they confront me after I usually just reply with something along the lines of "They wanted to be the ones who told everyone. I wasn't going to take that away from them.". I won't lie, if they're still mad after that I'll usually just shrug and tell them to go take it up with person/couple in question.
Posted by Anysunrise[/QUOTE]

I agree with this.

anna.oskar

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: This could be awkward. : I think Anna is offering to hold your hoop earrings here if shiit gets real, yo'
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

Dang straight. i know how to get someone's back and I'll pick up your weave if it gets pulled out. It ain't cheap.

MeaghanandMichael

Any - yeah that is really good terminology to use after the fact.

Nates - I think this situation is unique in that I am techinically "closer" to mutual friend than the pregnant couple just because we are girls who grew up together, so it is a girly relaitonship, kwim? I just know this friend is going to be legitimately hurt. She is not the type to be like this at all, but in this particular case I can see why she would be hurt. As well. Life goes on.

ichellemay1

M&M - I have had a similar situation.  When asked about it, I just told those who asked "It wasn't my story to tell".

NatesGirl16

For real, Anna.  If there's anything Danielle Staub taught me, it's that expensive weave gets pulled out just like cheap weave, but you should still pick it up. 

M&M-Ah, I get you.  That makes it really awkward for you, but I can't really blame mutual friend for being upset.  That sucks .

LedZeppelin

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: This could be awkward. : Dang straight. i know how to get someone's back and I'll pick up your weave if it gets pulled out. It ain't cheap.
Posted by anna.oskar[/QUOTE]

Haha. I heart you.