I'm having a pitty party for myself and just want to whine! So I understand that the month leading up to my wedding, or even the day before aren't all about me...i get that life does not stop just because I'm getting married, but I thought I could at least have my day! Apparently I was wrong.
As I was out shopping with my mom today, having a girls day getting clothes and just having fun, she told me that since my family will be here anyways for my wedding that she wants to throw a baby shower for my sister right after the reception! I was shocked, didn't know what to say...I mean, yeah, our family dosen't get together that often, but really...on the one day I get for just me?
Then she starts going off on how we shouldn't have picked noon for our wedding because it wasn't fair to people coming from out of town...I didn't hear her saying anything before when we were sending out the invitations!...
Then I found out she sent an e-mail to my aunt complaining about how much stress she is under for the wedding...I'm sorry, but I wasn't the one that demanded I come up a month before the wedding to plan every detail ( could've done everything from my home, but she wanted me here because it was the last time we could be together before I get married) or insist on cooking for the rehersal (It's a very relaxed wedding...ie Pizza!)...or invite all the relatives to the rehersal dinner without checking with me...She isn't even paying for the wedding! My Fiance and I are (she bought my dress, which I am greatful for, but that's all so she shouldn't be stressed about money for the wedding)...all she has to do is show up, help me into my dress, walk down the asile, and enjoy herself..oh yeah, so stressful, she keeps trying to "remind" me of all the things that I haven't done or are doing wrong (which is apparently everything!)
And one of my bridesmaids backed out because she can't afford the ticket which is fine, but I would've appreciated finding out about more than 6weeks before the wedding. I even sent her an e-mail a couple months ago double checking that she would still be able to come and that everything would be okay and she said it would and she couldn't wait then two weeks later *Bam* she can't come...but she still has the dress I paid for and can't send it back till the first so hopefully it gets here before the wedding so I can have my other girl wear it (luckily they are the right size) because the dress is discontuned so I can't go buy another one!
I just feel whiney tonight and there is still so much to do!