Well today marks 3 weeks till my wedding, my MOH has been M.I.A. we had plans to go shoe shopping today, she has her husband call me last minute saying she is sick....she was to be here earlier today to help with finalizing the flowers and stuff, she never showed, she said she was asleep but her husband sent me a txt saying she had went out with her dad....then she sent a txt saying she was grocery shopping and she would be here in a minute then her hubby calls and tells me this. Part of me wants to just tell her to leave it alone and forget about the wedding all together....I'm frazzled and I need her help but I seem to be doing this all by myself.