ok, so i'm in one of the most awkward situations ever!
one of my bms texted me this morning saying "question: who from our college graduating class was invited? i've had a couple inquiries and haven't known what to say..."
my fiance and i both recently graduated from a kind of close-knit university's theatre program, and our whole graduating class was pretty good friends, with a few exceptions.
i go on to ask her who these people were who were asking and she listed off three names- people who my fiance and i both don't really care to see again. they were the kind of friends who you really liked in college, but once you graduate you look back and say "why on earth was i friends with this person?" suffice it to say that when they came up while FI and i were playing the "who do we invite to the wedding" game they were very fast vetoes. plus, we can only fit 125 people MAX in our reception venue, and half that went to our families!
so my question is: what on earth do i say? do i tell her to tell them that asking for invites is tacky? do i have her direct their questions to me? do i have her tell them about the limited space thing? my save-the-dates are out, and i think they've gotten the hint that they aren't invited and maybe are just looking for reasons? i feel so uncomfortable and feel so bad for my poor bm who's caught in the middle of all this!!
what do i do?!?!?